1. Be a "creature unlike any other."
However, in particular think in terms of "The Creature from the Black Lagoon"
(Universal 1954), a dark monster that conquers her. Beauty and the Beast. Chicks
love that shit.
2. Don't talk much to a girl (but do take her dancing.)
She only wants to talk about relationships and girl stuff anyway. So take her
dancing. They go nuts for this. Learn enough to get by and look cool, though
you won't need it much after you have her hooked. In the meantime you can flirt
with the other girls on the dance floor.
3. Pay her way on the date, but expect to get back in kind.
Buy her a nice meal, so that she knows what she owes you in exchange for the
meal. In addition, if you buy her a fancy schmancy $50 dinner at some ritzy
place, she won't be able to turn down your request for a $300 "loan"
until you can "get to the cash machine." Good investment.
4. Don't call her after sex.
Make her wait a few days. Girls do this stare at the phone thing, makes them
all anticipatory. Don't give them what they want. Call her in a couple of days
or if you get horny again. Also, after sex, just roll over and go to sleep,
even if she hasn't had an orgasm yet. You did a lot of work and you're tired,
and you have important work to do tomorrow.
5. Always end phone calls first.
Especially if she's read the Girl's Rules that tell her to do this, you won't
have to worry about long phone calls. I mean girls can yak so long on the phone.
6. Don't give her any warning about a date.
Make sure she stays free all the time in case you call. And more to the point,
keep yourself free in case something comes up elsewhere, if you know what I
mean. If you call and she's not available, act real hurt, make it seem like
you will end the relationship if she does this a lot.
7. Tell her what she wants to hear (ie. Lie.)
You like long walks on the beach. You love kids. You like to cook. You're looking
to settle down in a country home with that one special girl. You love horses,
paris, chick movies, sushi and Meryl Streep. You support her goals. Tell her
you're rich, famous, whatever. She'll figure out the more ridiculous ones eventually
but if you play this right you'll get laid first and have her captured. Don't
be scared to eventually talk to her about "the relationship" -- girls
go for this. Just be sure not to believe it yourself.
8. Stop dating her if she doesn't put out by the second date.
Pretend like you're not super eager to get laid but drop the hint with gentle
physical contact. It is nice to date easy chicks and all and get laid on the
first date, but some of the hottest ones like to wait a date. However, if she
doesn't at least give you a blowjob by date #2, #3 at the latest, there are
better investments out there. On date #3, remind her of the "third date
rule."
9. Tell her you love her.
This is the big corollary of rule #7. Don't do it right away but definitely
do it if she's showing reluctance on that blowjob. Practice saying it like you
mean it. As the old saying goes, "Sincerity is everything. If you can fake
that you've got it made."
10. No more than casual sex on the first, or 100th date.
Definitely don't get too involved, as she might ask to be monogamous or something.
Make sure that you never let yourself get tied down.
11. Tell her what to do.
Hey, in the end they all want to be dominated. So make all the decisions and
see how she goes for it. If so, you can probably get this to continue in the
bedroom. No girl is perfect, but most of them like to please a man so you can
change the one(s) you have to fit your needs.
12. Be the bad boy.
Girls love the "bad boy." They hope they can "reform" him,
or they're a case of point #11 above. Either way, you can be as bad as you like.
Treat her like she doesn't exist. Be mysterious. Dangerous. Wear cuffs and a
leather motorcycle jacket, even if you drive a Hyundai. (Park the Hyundai somewhere
else and walk to where you meet her, though.) Remember, nice guys don't get
laid.
13. Don't let her know anything she can pin on you.
Girls like to get close to their guy, and "communicate." But later,
if you break up, she might try and get back at you so for crissake don't let
her know anything she could use or spread to others. Invent deep intimate stuff
you can tell her in bed, she'll go for it. If you can't think up your own, buy
one of those books with Fabio (the guy from the "I can't believe it's not
butter" commercials) on the cover and be one of those guys. (God, this
guy can't tell butter from margarine and chicks swoon over him? Something strange
going on here.)
14. Don't tell her you're married!
For some reason they get really upset. When you take off your ring, get some
tanning lotion or put your hand under a sunlamp to make sure it's not visible
where you took it off. Or tell your wife you just don't want to wear a ring;
invent some sort of bizarre hand disease or rice picker accident. Anyway even
the ones who haven't read the Girl's Rules don't want to date married guys so
don't let her (or your wife) know.
15. Be a pain to live with.
Well, this isn't a thing to so much try to do as a reminder to be yourself.
If you shack up, don't alter your own life just to make it easier for her. One
exception, which is admittedly a royal pain, but worth it -- put the toilet
seat down after you take a wizz. She sees that and she'll think she's found
god's gift to girls, and she'll give you better sex than a $300 hooker. Compare
-- 5 seconds of your time each day to put down the seat vs. $300 blowjob. No
brainer!
16. Don't get caught staring at her tits or other girls'.
For some reason girls don't like it when we stare at their tits when we talk
to them. And they don't like us staring at other girls' either. As if we have
a choice! Anyway, they're watching for this so don't get caught. Check their
eyes, then do your looking.
17. Don't let her leave your things in your apartment.
Or give her a key, until you're sure you can count on her for very regular nookie.
Otherwise they might try to insinuate themselves into your life before you are
sure of this.
18. Even if you're engaged or married, you still can play around.
I mean, do they own you or something? This rule is the most fun.
19. Do The Rules even when your friends or parents think you're nuts!
Truth is, you're getting laid, and they are just jealous.
20. Don't give her the ring, but make her think you will -- or give her a fake
ring.
Drop hints and pretend like some day you want to be married to her, but don't
actually do it. You can even get engaged if you want to lock in some regular
pussy. There's no law that says you actually have to follow through with the
ceremony. Plus, it takes an expert to tell cubic zirconia from a diamond, and
if she takes her ring to an expert she clearly doesn't trust you and is a lost
cause anyway. You can get one of these rings for about $100 and trust me you'll
get a fuck worth far more than that out of it.
21. Double check the birth control.
There's a trade off here. On one hand you don't want to use condoms, so get
her on the pill ASAP. On the other hand if she runs the birth control she might
blindside you with something annoying like a kid just to hook you. You decide.
If she gets pregnant, take the new "morning-after" pill for guys.
(It alters your blood type.)
22. Don't discuss The Rules for Guys with girls.
Like I need to explain this one to you? Do they explain their rules to us? Thought
not.
22a. Don't discuss The Rules for Guys with your therapist.
Because if you have a therapist you've really missed the point of The Rules
for Guys.
23. Figure out her romantic dream.
Almost all girls have one. In 90% of cases it's the knight in shining armour,
the handsome prince or the tall, dark and handsome mysterious stranger. Harlequin
Romances isn't exactly going broke selling girls books about how a guy comes
into the girl's life and does something as simple as fixing her car to make
her life right and sweeps her off her feet. You would be amazed at the "mileage"
you can get just by taking her car down to the shop. Though if you can find
a good mechanic, let me know, OK? Anyway, subtly find out her own personal romantic
dream, and play-act it. On the cheap, of course -- you only have to play-act.
While she may dream of a billionaire who whisks her away to his ranch in his
jet, she'll settle for a $60 rental limo and a $40 1-hour rental horseback ride.
24. Sometimes ya gotta break The Rules.
Hey, Burger King said it best. And it's a great place for a cheap date (use
$4 from the $300 she "lent" you.) But in this case I mean you gotta
break the Girl's Rules.
25. Do The Rules girls. Yes, you can!
If you suspect that some really attractive girl is following The Rules for girls,
take heart. I mean if she's a dog, lose her. But if she's got a great set or
you have some other reason to particularly want her, you now know her exact
game and can use it to get her. The book tells these girls to follow its rules
religiously, even when they don't make sense. You will have to wait 6 dates,
but the authors do tell girls over 30 it's OK to have sex, so they will. Forget
young "The Rules" girls unless you are really keen on virgin-plucking.
You only have to date 'em once a week -- if you date them Friday then you are
free as a bird on Saturday; they'll end calls and dates; they won't call you
when you have other girls over -- a lot of advantages, and as long as you see
past all the manipulative "hard-to-get" tricks you won't be fooled,
just laid.
First, you have to check if she's a The Rules girl or just a stuck-up bitch.
Sometimes it can be hard to differentiate them. Test this by first telling her
how much you admire a girl who sticks to her principles, and then call her Thursday
telling her you just got front-row Orchestra seats to the Boston Pops (a classical
musical group) concert on Friday. If she says yes, she's the stuck-up bitch.
Say, "Did I say Boston Pops? I meant Iggy Pop!" and dump her.
If she says a reluctant no, she's a The Rules girl. The book tells them never
to accept a weekend date after Wednesday. Rush out to the bookstore to get a
copy of The Rules. You'll find it in the dating/relationships section. Since
there is zero chance you've ever gone near that section before, ask at the cashier's
desk. When you get to it you'll know why you've never been to this section before
from the titles of the books. Venus and Mars Together Forever. Men who hate
women and the women who love them too much. Like Dave Barry says I am not making
this up. You're the only guy in weeks to go to this section other than to laugh
at the titles, so if you're lucky some chick might even hit on you. But if not,
go buy the book, and then read it. It's short.
Now you'll know her exact game. Problem is, as noted, it will be 6 weeks until
you get laid. Be sure you have something else on the side during those six weeks.
But look at the advantages. Other than those noted above, you'll learn that
she won't bring up crap like "marriage" or "kids" or "the
relationship." She expects you to bring these things up. Soon the book
will tell her to dump you. Track this, and make sure to start dating another
The Rules girl before the breakup -- 6 weeks before the breakup if you can time
it right.
26. Do The Rules For Guys and you'll get laid.
Don't forget this. You may be tempted to break them, to be "nice"
or "sensitive" or even listen to her. But everybody knows that nice
guys don't get laid. You want to be nice or in the sack? I thought so.
